On Handling a Transaction Mindset

It's really hard to rid yourself of the mindset of work being a transaction.

Linchpin talks about giving your gifts without getting paid for the extra you put in. And when you are paid for doing something, then it's not really a gift; it's not something extra.

Reality is the culprit. I'm currently in a work environment that is really great. I've been motivated enough to work harder than the rest. I do my best to do things that are not required of me. I'm given new challenges, and opportunities to improve my skills. However, reality hits me whenever I think I'm not gonna earn enough from my current job to improve my family's standard of living. Expense creep is a thing, especially when your kid/s is/are growing up, and the economy worsens every year. These concerns are valid. We are human, after all.

Naturally, I'd ask my company for more. And I have been, for two years now. But the response has been really slow. I know my value is so much greater than what I am getting paid for, and so I look for opportunities outside. Management does recognize me, and appreciate the gifts I give, but lately, all these recognitions do not satisfy me; they seem very superficial. After all my achievements, you'd think I'd get promoted, or at least get an increase. But this hasn't happened. And it's not just me. It's no wonder attrition is high. 

If I am not able to improve the standard of living for my family, with my current job, and my company does not help me achieve that, then I may not really getting all the support I need; and that's an indicator of poor management (yes, in spite of all the engagement activities).

So do we result to quiet quitting until management finally hears what we've been shouting all along? Perhaps not. Look outside; quit if you have to. But do not stop being a linchpin. That will ultimately help you find another place were you can thrive, in all aspects of life. If you're in this situation, I hope you don't stop giving it your all. People outside are watching you, and may even value you more. So keep on shining, keep grinding, and keep reaching out, even if reality is a bitter cup to swallow. Being a linchpin will give you more value than quiet quitting, or sulking about your situation.

And I hope you eventually find what you are looking for.